السماح أو الإنتقام

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ممكن تقلب حياتنا بأقل من ثواني

You can turn our lives upside down in less than seconds.

هيدا الأسبوع قبل أي شي بدي كلنا هيك يكون عنا ببالنا

This week, before anything else, I want us all to have this in mind.

أنه في لحظات كتير منخاف منها أنها تصير

There are many moments we fear will happen.

أو أنها توصل بهيدا الحياة

Or it leads to this life.

وأنه يغضر فينا الزمن والوقت

"And that time and the hour betray us."

وأنه يمكن أمراري كتير

And that it can be very annoying to me.

ما نقدر نرجع نعود اللحظة

We cannot go back to relive the moment.

أو نرجع نفكر باللحظة ونندم عليها

Or we go back to thinking about the moment and regret it.

وبعد ما ننوعد

And after we promise.

ونندم أكيد بيجي اللحظة

And we will surely regret it, the moment will come.

اللي هي أنه أمراري كتير منقول

Which means that I am really tired a lot.

أنه هل لازم أنتقم؟

Do I have to take revenge?

هل لازم أخد حقي؟

Do I have to take my right?

هل بترك حقي لغيري؟

Shall I give up my right for someone else?

هل بحط الحق حالي

Am I putting myself in the right?

عشان ما أضطر أني أخد حقي من غيري؟

So that I don't have to take my right from others?

اليوم السؤال بيقول

Today the question says

هل عنكم الجرأة أنكم تقولوا أنكم ناس

Do you have the courage to say that you are people?

بتخافوا من الانتقام؟

Are you afraid of revenge?

اليوم السؤال بيقول

Today the question is asking

هل عنكم الجرأة أنكم تقولوا

Do you have the courage to say?

أنه الانتقام هو حل

That revenge is a solution.

بس أنتوا منكم مستعدين أنكم تمشوا فيه؟

But are you all ready to go through with it?

اليوم السؤال بيقول

Today the question says

مين فيكم بلحظات معينة ما تمنى أنه ينتقم؟

Who among you, at certain moments, hasn't wished to take revenge?

على وجع معين

On a specific pain.

على وعد معين

On a certain promise.

على خيبة أمل معينة

About a certain disappointment.

على غدر

On treachery

على سكينة ترق فيها بدهره

In tranquility, he is touched by the passage of time.

على وعودات كتير

On many promises.

بس معه وماشي منه نتنفذه

"But with him and going from him, we will implement it."

مين فيكم اليوم عنده الجرأة أنه يقول

Who among you today has the courage to say?

أنه أنا كذبوا علي

They lied to me.

وقلت أني سمحتهم

And I said that I allowed them.

أنه هني غدروا فيي وقلت أني نسيتهم

They betrayed me, and I said that I had forgotten them.

أنه هني

He is happy.

موافوا بوعدهم وأنا قلت آخر هم

They fulfilled their promise, and I said it was their last.

مين فيكم عنده الجرأة يقول

Who among you has the courage to say?

أنه أنتوا بتقولوا هيك بس

You only say that.

لأنه ما عندكم الجرأة أنكم تقولوا

Because you don't have the courage to say.

أنه ما بعرف كيف بده انتقام

I don't know how revenge is going to be.

أو

or

بخاف أنه انتقام

I'm afraid it's revenge.

أو

Or

الانتقام لناس لدعف

Revenge for the weak.

اليوم السؤال بيقول

Today the question says.

هل برأيكم الانتقام بس فقط؟

Do you think that revenge is just that?

للناس لدعف

For people, there is a need.

اليوم السؤال بيقول

Today's question says

هل الانتقام بيقول

Does revenge speak?

أنه لازم انتقام

There must be revenge.

لأنا أرتاح

Because I relax.

أو لازم انتقام ل

Or revenge is necessary for

أوجع بس الشخص التاني

It hurts, but the other person.

أو هل الانتقام هو

Or is revenge

وكيفي أنه بيوم من

And how it is that on a day of

الأيام بوقت من الأوقات

Days at certain times.

يريحني هيدا السؤال

This question relaxes me.

فيه له كتير أجوبة

It has a lot of answers.

وكتير أفكار

And many ideas.

وكتير أبعاد فيه كتير ناس

And there are many dimensions in it; there are many people.

بتحتمي بفكرة أنه

You are relying on the idea that

سامح

Forgive.

كتير بتحكي على الناس اللي بيقولوا لي

You talk a lot about the people who tell me.

آه ما بيأثر

Ah, it doesn't matter.

الواحد لازم يسامح

One must forgive.

لازم يسامح

He must forgive.

صح

Correct.

لا لازم يسامح

He must forgive.

كيف جبتوها لهيدا؟

How did you bring this to him?

من وين جبتوها؟

Where did you get it from?

من أي وجعة؟ من أي جرح؟

From what pain? From what wound?

من أي غدر؟ من أي زمن؟

From what treachery? From what time?

من أي لحظة جبته

From which moment did you bring it?

أن الواحد فيه فوت على حياتنا

That one has missed out on our lives.

والحياته

And life.

تحبش فينا

You don't love us.

وهو مجدداً

And once again.

مع الحياة ما يشفع لنا

With life, there is what justifies us.

وماشي يبقى لنا

And what will remain for us?

وآخر شي

And the last thing.

أنا بس سامحة أرتاح

I just want to relax.

اليوم السؤال بيقول

Today the question says

أين تقدر تتسامحوا؟

Where can you forgive?

اليوم السؤال بيقول هل فيكن حدا

Today the question is asking if there is anyone.

قدر يوصل لهيدا اللحظة؟

How much can he reach this moment?

هيدا الشخص

This person.

هيدا رفيق

This is a friend.

هيدا الصديقة

This is the friend.

هيدا الأم أو هيدا البي

Is this the mother or the father?

هيدا الشخص اللي إجا باعكن وعودات ببلاش

This is the person who came and sold you empty promises for free.

لقالكن بكرة

I would have told you tomorrow.

انتور

Antor

رح أرجيك

I will show you.

رح أعطيك

I will give you.

رح كون حدك

"I will be by your side."

ما حق اتركك

What right do I have to leave you?

كيف ما برم الزمن والدولاب أنا حدك

No matter how time and the wheel have turned, I am by your side.

وينه هيدا الشخص هلأ؟

Where is this person now?

شو عم بيعمل؟ سمحتوه؟

What is he doing? Did you allow him?

أو بعدكن نطرينه؟

Or are you waiting for us?

أو عاملين حالكن إنكن نسيته؟

Or are you acting as if you forgot him?

بالرغم أنه

Despite the fact that

بعضه وجعه معلم فيكن

Some of it hurts; the teacher can be.

فاليوم السؤال بيقول

So today the question is asking

أين تمنت سامح؟

Where did Samah wish?

قال الانتقام هو شيء اضطراري للسماح؟

He said that revenge is something necessary to allow?

أكيد آه

Sure, yes.

الانتقام مباشره

Revenge is direct.

بالضرورة

By necessity.

مثل ما كل العالم دايماً بتقول

Just like the whole world always says.

أنه سميحة أنت دايماً بتقولي

"Samihah, you always tell me."

انتقمه

I will take revenge on him.

يعني أنا إذا هو خاني أنا لازم خونه

It means if he cheats on me, I have to cheat on him.

لا ما فشار

No, it's not popcorn.

يعني أنا إذا هو عمل أنا لازم أعمل

It means if he does it, I have to do it.

لا ما فشار

No, it's not popcorn.

بس ما فيه شخص يجي

But there is no one to come.

يعمل مشاكل بحياتي

He is causing problems in my life.

وينسيني مين أنا

And makes me forget who I am.

أو شو أهدافي

What are my goals?

أو ينطرني على الفاضي أساساً

Or he waits for me for nothing, basically.

مين هو هذا الشخص اللي بده ينطرني على الفاضي؟

Who is this person that's going to wait for me for nothing?

لأنه أمراري كتير

Because it’s very bitter for me.

بين الندم والانتقام فيه

Between regret and revenge in it.

خات رفيع

Thin ring

تعرفوا شو هو هذا الخات الرفيع؟

Do you know what this thin ring is?

ما فيك ما تنتقم

You can't not take revenge.

من شيء أنت اندمت عليه

From something you regretted.

ما فيك تنتقم من شيء ما خلاك

You can't take revenge on something that didn't leave you.

تندم على كل لحظة أنت

You regret every moment you are.

قديتها وضحيت فيها كرماله

I devoted myself and sacrificed for his sake.

ما فيك ما تنتقم كرمال

You can't not seek revenge for the sake of...

كل شيء أنت

Everything is you.

كنت ناطره وما صار

I was waiting and it didn't happen.

ما فيك ما تنتقم

You can't not take revenge.

لأنك اندمت أنه لو ما

Because you regretted that if it weren't for...

أنت يكون هذا الشخص بحياتك

You are this person in your life.

يمكن كنت أخدت قرارات تانية

Maybe I should have made different decisions.

ما فيك ما تنتقم

You can't not take revenge.

لأنك كتير أنت بلحظات معينة كنت عم بتعاني

Because you were suffering a lot at certain moments.

وبرضه قبلت أنك تتحمل هيدا الوجه

"And also, you accepted to endure this face."

ما فيك ما تنتقم لكل لحظة نظم أنت قطعت فيها

"You must take revenge for every moment you composed that you were interrupted."

بين النظم والانتقام خيات كتير رفيع

Between systems and revenge, there is a very fine line.

بين النظم والانتقام يمكن ما فيه خيات أساساً

Between systems and revenge, there may not be any deceit at all.

بين النظم والانتقام ما هني بيشبهوا بعض

Between systems and revenge, they don't resemble each other.

يا بنضم وبدأ انتقم من غيري

Oh, I will join and start taking revenge on others.

وللأسف أكتريت العالم بتفضل أنها تنتقم بنفسها هي

Unfortunately, most of the world prefers to take revenge themselves.

بتبتل توسق لا بحالها ولا بأحلامها ولا ببكرة

She is dependent neither on her reality nor on her dreams nor on tomorrow.

ولا بشو فيها تحقق

"And what is achieved with it?"

بتصير عندها أنه خلص ضيعت وقت خلص ما بقى معي وقت

She feels that she has wasted her time and that she no longer has time left.

خلص ما أنا ما بقى عندي فرص

That's it, I don't have any more opportunities left.

لأنه إجت ناس إجت ناس وخلتنا نحنا نصدق ووعد ورا وعد

Because people came and made us believe, promise after promise.

وننضم لحظة بعد لحظة أنه صدقنا لحظة واحدة من اللي هني وعدوا

And we realize moment by moment that we believed in one moment of those who promised here.

نفيها ففي حل من اتنين يا بدك تنتقم من نفسك وتجلد نفسك

Denying it means you are free from two options: either you take revenge on yourself and punish yourself.

وتكون هايدي اللحظات اللي جاي كتير صعبة

These upcoming moments will be very difficult.

لأنه أسهل شي عند الإنسان أنه ينتقم من نفسه

Because the easiest thing for a person is to take revenge on themselves.

أسهل شي عند الإنسان أنه ينسى أحلامه

The easiest thing for a person is to forget their dreams.

أسهل شي عند الإنسان أنه يستغنى عن كل شي كان هو ناطر أنه يحققه

The easiest thing for a person is to give up everything they were waiting to achieve.

كتير سهل

Very easy.

كتير سهل لأنه الإنسان بالنسبة له أنا ما كنت بستاهل هيك

It's very easy because, for him, I didn't deserve this.

أنا ما كان لازم يصير مره

I should never have become a problem.

هك بتبلش هك

This is how it starts.

ومن تصير بعدين

And who will become later?

يمكن نلحق علي

We can catch up.

يمكن أنا نطرت كتير

Maybe I waited a lot.

يمكن أنا صدقت كتير

Maybe I believed a lot.

يمكن أنا ما عرفت أتصرف معه

Maybe I just didn't know how to deal with him.

يمكن أنا ما عرفت أخليها تحبني

Maybe I didn't know how to make her love me.

يمكن معه حق أنا طلعت فاشل

Maybe he's right, I turned out to be a failure.

يمكن معه حق أنه أنا كنت كتير نق عليه

It may be true that I criticized him a lot.

وبتصير هون

"And it happens here."

من يمكن ليمكن

Who can be able?

منندم على الأشياء

I regret the things.

اللي هني لمونا عليهم

Those who gathered us here.

لو أنت ما تعملي هك ما كنت تركتك

If you hadn't done that, I wouldn't have left you.

لو الطولة بالك كنت بقيت معي

"If you had patience, you would have stayed with me."

لو أنت ما تستعجلي

If you are not in a hurry.

كنت قشت اللحظة

I was just kidding.

هول كل العالم اللي بيقولوا كون هك كذبين

The whole world that says like this is lying.

كل العالم اللي بيقولوا مو كون كذبين

All the people in the world who say that it is not a lie.

كل وحد بيحسسك أنك أنت ناقص

Everyone makes you feel like you're lacking.

عشان هيك هو فالل هو كذب

"That's why he is lying."

لأنه لما حبك حبك

Because when he loved you, he loved you.

بالرغم من كل شي ناقص فيك

Despite everything that is lacking in you.

ما كان ناقص شي بياني بوقتها

There was nothing missing in my explanation at the time.

ليه هلا انتبه أنه صار ناقص كل شي

Why did you just notice that everything is now missing?

هيدا الإنسان

This person

اللي عم بيكذب عليك وعم بيحسسك

"Whoever is lying to you and making you feel..."

أنك أنت

That you are.

أكتر شي بيندم عليه أنه عطاك فرصة

The thing he regrets the most is giving you a chance.

فأسهل شي عند البشر أنه يحسسونا

The easiest thing for humans is to make us feel.

أنه نحن

That we are

بس الشي الوحيد اللي هني بيندموا

But the only thing they regret here.

عليه أنه عطونا فرصة

He said that they gave us a chance.

نحن الشي الوحيد اللي هني

We are the only thing they have.

بيندموا عليه أنه هني أساساً جربوا

They regret that they actually tried it.

أنه نحن ما طلعنا قد

We haven't gone out yet.

أنه نحن خياب نقلهم أملهم

That we are their hope for change.

أنه نحن الوقت والزمن

That we are time and duration.

ما خلينا أنه نتطور مثل ما لازم

We didn't let ourselves develop as we should.

بتعرفوا لا؟

Do you know or not?

لأنه نحن وفاية

Because we are loyal.

وفاية لمن كنا نحن أول ما بلشنا

A farewell to those we were when we first started.

نحن ولاد أصل

We are children of virtue.

ولاد الحرام كتير

There are many illegitimate children.

نحن ولاد

We are boys.

عمنا كلمة

Our word

بس الناس اللي بتبيع كلامي كتير هنكتار

But the people who sell my words are many.

نحن ناس

We are people.

لما بنعطي وعد

When we make a promise.

نحن قد الوعد

We have kept the promise.

بس الناس

But the people.

اللي بتعرف

The one you know.

ترشوا وعدات كتير كتير كتير

They will win a lot, a lot, a lot.

ما تنسوا بحياتكم

Don't forget in your life.

أنه في فرق بين أنه حضن

There is a difference between it being a hug.

يندم لأنه كان معكم

He regrets that he was with you.

وحضن بفشر على رقبته

And he hugged him tightly around his neck.

ما كان بيستاهل أنه يقضي لحظة معكم

He didn't deserve to spend a moment with you.

وقعد تندموا

"And they regretted."

على أحدكم

On one of you.

وقعد تندموا على أحدكم

"And you sat regretting for one of you."

وقعد تندموا على إنسان لأنه عطاكم درس

"And you sit lamenting over a person because they taught you a lesson."

وقعد تندموا على إنسان لأنه قطع بحياتكم

"And you keep regretting a person because they cut off your lives."

وقعد تندموا على لحظة لأنه قطعتوها

"And you sat regretting a moment because you cut it off."

لأنه كل لحظة من اللحظات

Because every moment is a moment.

اللي هلأ عم تكلكم من الندم

"Those who are now telling you about regret."

هي لحظة لازم تاخدوا منها درس

It's a moment you must learn a lesson from.

مين هو هيدا الشخص

Who is this person?

اللي بعدكم ندمانين عليه؟

Who among you regrets it?

مين هي هيدا اللحظة

Who is this moment?

اللي بعدكم عم تبكوا عليها؟

Who are you crying about after her?

ليش؟ كرمال شو؟

Why? For what purpose?

لأنه ما طلعتوا قدع؟

"Why didn't you all come out, guys?"

أو لأنه هيدا الشخص طلع كتير أصخف

Or because this person turned out to be very silly.

أصخف مما أنتوا كنتوا مفاكرين

Sillier than you all thought.

حجموا

They sized up.

عطوه حجموا

"Give him size."

كل شخص منه قد

Everyone can have their own.

كل شخص هو أساساً مش قد

Every person is essentially not enough.

أنتوا كبرتوه

You all made it bigger.

أنتوا معرفتوا تحجموا

You couldn't contain yourselves.

لأنه نحن لما منحب

Because when we love.

لأنه برجع بعيد

Because I come back far.

نحن أولاد أسر

We are the children of families.

لما منحب منحب بكل قويتنا

When we love, we love with all our strength.

فلما بفكر بالانتقام

So when I think about revenge

فكر كم حدا فينا قاعدة

Think about how many of us are sitting.

عم ينتقم بنفسه

He is taking revenge on himself.

وكم حدا فينا مش مسترجي ينتقم

How many of us do not dare to take revenge?

من الناس اللي غلطوا معه

From the people who wronged him.

كم حدا فينا ما بيعرف يواجه

How many of us do not know how to face?

كم حدا فينا ما بيعرف يقول

How many of us don't know how to express themselves?

كم حدا فينا مفكر

How many of us are thinking?

أن الوقت خلص ولا شو بعد

Is the time up or what?

بدي واجه لا

I want to face it, no.

بدي واجه كل شخص

I want to confront everyone.

وبدي فرجي كل شخص

I want to show everyone.

وبدي أرجع أوقف على جري

I want to go back and stop running.

بالرغم من كل شخص

Despite everyone

لأنه كل إنسان

Because every human.

مرأ ووعد

Saw and promised.

وخلاني أنتر وخلاني أندم

And he made me wait and made me regret.

وخلاني أني هلأ

And it made me who I am now.

كون عم بجلد نفسي

I'm punishing myself.

هو هو بالذات

It is exactly him.

هيدا الإنسان بده يعود

This person wants to return.

كتير منيح ويعرف

Very good and knows.

أنه جايي وقت لحساب

It's time for accountability.

وما تقولوا لي لا

And don't tell me no.

لأنه فيه يا بدك تحاسب الإنسان

Because in it, either you have to hold the person accountable.

يا بدك تحاسب حالك

You need to hold yourself accountable.

ما تقولوا لي شو يعني باهد له

What do you mean by "I will give him a glare"?

شو يعني شو بقل له

What does it mean, what should I tell him?

شو يعني شو بحكي

What do you mean, what am I saying?

لا لا كل واحد

No, no, everyone.

لازم يعرف حقيقته بهيد الدنيا

He needs to know his reality in this world.

كل واحد لازم يعرف حجمه

Everyone must know their size.

خلص بنساه بعمل كأنه ما صار شي

He'll forget it and act like nothing happened.

أنت فيك تنسى وجعك

You can forget your pain.

خلص ما بواجهه

That's it, I won't face it anymore.

أنت مين لما تواجهه

Who are you when you face him?

كيف يعني ما بواجهه

What do you mean I don't confront it?

هيدا الوجع اللي ترك لك يا

This is the pain that he left for you.

لمين بتتركه

Who are you leaving it to?

لمين أنت بدك تتركه

Who do you want to leave?

هيدا الإنسان اللي اعتبر أنك أنت

This is the person who considered you.

منك قد الوعد

You have given the promise.

اللي كان وعدك يا زكرو

Who promised you, Zakro?

أنت اللي بلا كلمة

You are the one with no words.

مش أنا اللي مني قد الوعد

It's not me who's not up to the promise.

ما فشرت

I didn't fail.

برجع بعيد ما فشر

I will come back far, I won't fail.

أي إنسان بهيد الدنيا

Any person in this world.

ما يعرف هو مين وأنتوا مين

What he knows is who he is and who you are.

كل واحد بهيد الحياة لازم يعرف

Everyone in this life must know.

أنت قطعت بحياتي

You have cut into my life.

بس قوى فكرك

Just strengthen your mind.

حتى لو أنتوا بتفكروا

Even if you are thinking.

شو بدي أقوله هو ما بده يسمع

What I want to say is that he doesn't want to listen.

لأنه أنتوا بتزخروا حالكم بالكلام

Because you keep bragging about yourselves.

لأنه أنتوا بتصيروا

Because you become.

بتكون تفهموا منه

You will understand it from him.

أنا بيعجبني أكتر شي الإنسان

I like humans the most.

لما حدا

When someone

ما بيوفي بوعده

He doesn't fulfill his promise.

بيقوم بيروح بيسألوا ليه

He goes and asks them why.

ليه كذبت علي

Why did you lie to me?

ليه ما قلت لي

Why didn't you tell me?

ليه نطرتني

Why did you wait for me?

ليه أنه ما خليت لي فرصة

Why didn't you give me a chance?

بلك أي فرصة منه إن هو واحد كذاب

"Maybe there's a chance that he's a liar."

منه قد وعده

He promised him.

أنتوا شو رايحين عم تسألوا لهذا الإنسان

What are you asking this person for?

هيدا ما اسمه

What is it called?

هيدا اسمه مش معاطب حدا

This is called not harming anyone.

هيدا اسمه استرجاء

This is called a request for forgiveness.

بليز يعني

Please, it means.

بليز ليه عم بتكذب

Please, why are you lying?

بليز ليه ما عم بتقولي الحقيقة

Please, why aren't you telling me the truth?

بليز ليه عم بتتركني

Please, why are you leaving me?

ليه بليز ما طلعت قد كلمتاك

Why didn't you come out as much as you talked?

تب ما بيأثر حتى لو ما طلعت قد كلمتاك

It doesn't matter even if I don't come out as much as I talked to you.

بس ما تتركني

But don't leave me.

هول الناس ما بينعطاهم حتى فرصة تانية

People don't even get a second chance.

في ناس بهيدا الدنيا ما بتستاهلوا

There are people in this world who don't deserve it.

في ناس بهيدا الدنيا ما بيستاهلوا حتى إن كنت انضموا عليهم

There are people in this world who don't even deserve to be joined against.

في ناس بهيدا الدنيا

There are people in this world.

بس بيستاهلوا الانتقام

But they deserve revenge.

وأمرار كتير

And many matters.

الانتقام هو نجاحكم

Revenge is your success.

الانتقام هو رجعتهم

Revenge is their return.

هو الانتقام لما بيرجعوا بتقولولهم

It's revenge when you tell them when they come back.

مين أنت

Who are you?

سوري

Syrian

آه أنت اللي كذبت مرة

Ah, you are the one who lied once.

آه أنت اللي أنا ما كنت كفيتك يوم من الأيام

Ah, you are the one I never did enough for one day.

آه سوري أنت اللي كذبت مرة

Oh, sorry, you're the one who lied once.

اللي تركتيني لأنه ما كان معي مصاري

You left me because I didn't have any money.

بس ذكريني أنت مين

Just remind me who you are.

بده يجي هيدا النهار

He wants to come this day.

ليجي هيدا النهار

Let this day come.

بده يخلي هيدا الإنسان

He wants to make this person оставаться.

يتطلع ويقول

He looks forward and says.

ييه لايكو مين فيه

Who is with you?

ييه لايكو وين صار لايكو وين وصلوا

Where are you, where have you reached?

لأنه كل إنسان بهيدا الحياة

Because every person in this life.

بس بده يوصل

He just wants to arrive.

بيوصل

It arrives.

وبس توصلوا دايماً كل العالم

And once you reach, everyone will always be there.

اللي دعوسوا عليكم

Those who have wronged you.

مثل الشاطرين بيرجعوا

Like the skilled ones, they come back.

كله بيرجعوا

Everything comes back.

لأنه كله بيستغرب

Because everyone is surprised.

وبيصير هون ما بقى عنده مشكل

And here he won't have any problems anymore.

أجمل لحظة

The most beautiful moment.

بهيدا الحياة

In this life.

هو لما بيكون عندك القوة أنه الشخص يرجع

It's when you have the strength for the person to come back.

وتقل له

"And you tell him."

أنت مين

Who are you?

وبتذكره هو مين

And remember who he is.

أنت

You

اللي أنا طلعت ابن أصل وأنت لا

"I am a man of noble lineage, and you are not."

أنت اللي طلعت أنا

You are the one who made me.

قد كلمتي وأنت لا

You spoke to me while you were not.

أنت اللي طلعت بتبقى محلك

You are the one who comes out, you stay in your place.

وبتلف حولي نفسك

"And you keep circling around me."

لأنه أنا اللي عندي طموح وأنت لا

Because I have ambition and you do not.

لأنه أنا اللي وفيت بوعودي

Because I am the one who fulfilled my promises.

لنفسي وأنت لا

For myself, and not for you.

ويا جماعة

And oh people

في فرق كتير كبير بين أنكم توعدوا حالكم

There is a very big difference between promising yourselves.

وبين أنكم تنتقموا من حالكم

He pointed out that you are taking revenge on your situation.

أكتريت الأمرار منقضي كل وقتنا

Most of the time is spent in vain.

وأكتريت وقتنا

"We rented our time."

عم ننتقم من حالنا

We are taking revenge on ourselves.

موسيقى

Music

اليوم بالبارت الثانية من البودكاست

Today in the second part of the podcast.

تعنا وأخيرا

We finally arrived.

هالمرة معي داف للحلقة

This time I have Dav for the episode.

وهالمرة

And this time

معنا شاب

We have a young man.

كيفنا اليوم

How are we today?

تمام تمام أنت كيف

I'm good, how about you?

جاهزين صبايا

Are the girls ready?

الصبايا كله هلأ جاهز

The girls are all ready now.

لازم يكونوا جاهزين للحديث

They need to be ready to talk.

هات نشوف خبرني شوي

Let me see, tell me a bit.

أول شي كان عندي هيك حب

The first thing I had was this kind of love.

ليش بسؤال

Why just with a question?

الرجال عنده أسباب للخيانة

Men have reasons for infidelity.

صح

Correct.

أو بيخون بلا سبب

Or they cheat for no reason.

بس عشان لازم يخون أو

But just because he has to betray, or...

يعني كتير بنات بيقولوا لي

Many girls tell me.

أنه

That he

أمراري كتير ما بيكون عنده

My bitterness is often not present.

سبب ليخوني

The reason for my betrayal.

أنه نحنا منيح أو أنه أنا

That we are good or that I am.

كتير منيحة معه

She's very good with him.

ما فيش بيرفك

There is no perfect.

بس بتقولك أنه

But I’m telling you that

يعني لي عم بيخوني أساسا

It means my uncle is cheating on me basically.

فلا بيخون

So he does not betray.

أه

Oh.

الرجال

The men

أول شي في فرق

The first thing is that there is a difference.

يعني فيه نوعا الخيانة عند الرجال

There are two types of betrayal among men.

أوك

Okay

أول نوع من الخيانة

The first type of betrayal.

أنه

That he

لما يكون عن جد الشاب بيحبك

When a young man truly loves you.

وبدو ياك

And they showed you.

ما رح يجي يغلط معك

He won’t come and make a mistake with you.

أوك

Okay

صراحة

Honestly

والشاب بالنهاية عنده غريزة

And in the end, the young man has an instinct.

كمان أوك

Okay, too.

ففيه فرق

There is a difference in it.

لما بدو يخونك

When he is about to betray you.

أوك هو بيحبك ومعك وكل شي

Okay, he loves you and is with you, and everything.

أوك

Okay

ومرة يروح يخونك بهالشهر

"And once he goes and betrays you this month."

بهالشهر

In this month

يعني

It means.

مرة يروح يخونك

"One time he goes to betray you."

هون

Here.

أوك

Okay

يعني فيه فرق بين هايدي الخيانة

It means there is a difference between this betrayal.

كرمال هو ما بدو يأذيها

For his sake, he doesn't want to harm her.

يعني ما بدو يغلط معها

It means he doesn't want to make a mistake with her.

أوك

Okay

عرفتي؟

Did you know?

وخصوصي هلأ في كتير

And especially now there are many.

عنا شباب بتضحك على البنات

There are guys who laugh at girls.

أنه أنا كرمال بدي أكمل معك

It's just that I want to continue with you.

وبدنا نكون مع بعض

And we want to be together.

وبدنا نكفي

And we want to continue.

أنه فينا نعمل هيك شي

We can do such a thing.

كرمال ما رح يخونك

For the sake of not betraying you.

أوك

Okay

ما تصدقي هيدا عم بيكذب عليك

"Don't believe him, he's lying to you."

هلأ عم ضر شوية شباب أنا

I'm bothering some young guys now.

بس هيدا عم بيكذب عليك

But this is lying to you.

ليه عم بيكذب؟

Why is he lying?

كرمال إذا هو عن جد بيحبها

"Just in case he really loves her."

ما رح يغلط معها

He won't make a mistake with her.

رح يخاف عليها

He will be worried about her.

كيف بيخاف على أخته

How does he fear for his sister?

بيخاف عليها

He is afraid for her.

تبالك هو عم بيقلها

He is telling her to be careful.

أنه أنا لأنه بحبك

It's because I love you.

مثلاً بدي

For example, I want.

مثلاً في شباب بيقلها

For example, some young people say to her.

أنه أنا حابب أدي وقت أكتر منك

I want to give you more time.

حابب بحس فيك

I want to feel you.

بدي شوف أنه آه

I want to see that, yes.

في شباب كمان بتقول للبنات

In youth, you also tell the girls.

أنه أنا بدي هيك توسأ فيي

I want you to ask me like this.

بدي كون أقرب مني

I want to be closer to me.

هول مش مظبوطين

They are not right.

كله حاكي فاضي

It's all nonsense.

بس في شباب كمان بتهددها بهذا الشي

But there are also guys who threaten her with this.

أنه بتتركها؟

Are you going to leave her?

آه

Ah

يتركك

He leaves you.

بيقلها مثلاً أنه

He tells her, for example, that...

أو بيهددها بالخيانة

Or he threatens her with betrayal.

يعني بيقلها أنا معيك

It means he tells her, "I am with you."

بس أنا عندي

But I have

سوري بهالكلمة

Sorry for this word.

يعني احتياجات

It means needs.

وأنا يعني

And I mean.

متطر أنه يكون مع غيرك

It's necessary for him to be with someone else.

فالبنات منغيرتها علي كمان

So the girls are not taking care of themselves either.

هيدا كله كذب

This is all a lie.

كرمال أول شي

For the first thing.

الشاب إذا عن جد بيحبك

If a young man really loves you.

بيخاف أنه يخسرك

He's afraid of losing you.

هيدا أول نقطة

This is the first point.

أوكي

Okay

وتاني نقطة إذا بيحبك

And the second point is if he loves you.

وعن جد بدوياك لبعدين

"And about your grandfather, he will be left for later."

ما بيغلط معيك

He doesn't make mistakes with you.

وصدقيني أنا كشاب

And believe me, as a young man.

البنات اللي يمكن أكتر شي فيه

The girls who may be the most in it.

يتعلق فيها غير الاهتمام

It concerns something other than interest.

اللي بتكون محترمة

The one who is respectful.

طيب ليلة كان

It was a good night.

البنات بفكروا أنه أكتر شي

Girls think that the most is

بيلفتوا

They attract attention.

أو بيقصروا مش بيلفتوا

Or they don't pay attention.

بيعلقوا الشاب

"They're hanging the young man."

لما بيعطوا لي بدويا

When will they give me my salary?

كذب

Liar.

بس ياخد الشاب لي بدويا بيفل

But when a young man takes what he wants, he flies away.

لا

No.

طيب ما هي إذا بتحبه

Okay, so what if you love him?

وعم تعطي لي بدويا

And what are you giving me, Bedouin?

لايكي

I like you.

هو برجع أنا بقلك

I'll tell you when he comes back.

إذا هو عن جد بيحبه

If he really loves him.

بيخاف عليها

He is afraid for her.

بيخاف عسمعته

He is afraid of his reputation.

بيخاف يغلط معه

He is afraid to make a mistake with him.

بينتر

Painter

فيه جاي الوقت

The time is coming.

مش أنت بدك ياها

Aren't you the one who wants it?

ولا بعدين ومكافين

And not later, and we are enough.

جاي الوقت

The time is coming.

لأنت بتقدر تتصرف معه

You can handle him.

مثل ما أنت بدك

As you wish.

بس ما أنتوا الشباب بتقولوا

But you guys are saying...

أنه أنا

That I am

نحنا كمان

We too.

بنفس الوقت

At the same time.

البنات اللي

The girls who

كمان مثلا

For example, also.

تعرف على بنات مثلا

Get to know girls, for example.

مثلا ما فيها تظهر كتير مأخر

For example, it doesn't show up a lot late.

أو أهلها محافظين

Or its people are conservative.

فيه بعد هيك كتير

There is still a lot after this.

طبعا

Of course

أو ما فيها مثلا

Or what it contains, for example.

تدلع معه

She spoils him.

أو تروح تسهر معه

Or you go out and spend the night with him.

أهلها ما بيقبلوا

Her family won't accept it.

مواتبر

Dead matter

هولي الإشياء

Holy things

فيه كتير بنات

There are a lot of girls.

بيعتبروا أنه هذا شي

They consider that this is something.

بنفر الشب

It means "The network is disconnected."

أنه هو الشب بده وحده

He is the guy who wants a girl.

أنه يعيش معه

He lives with him.

يروح معه

He goes with him.

يعني

It means.

فيه فرق

There is a difference.

هيدا

This

اللي بتكون هك

Those who are like this.

هيدا اسمه حبيبته

This is his girlfriend's name.

هو مكفي

He is sufficient.

ومناوي

And Manawi

يكفي معه

That's enough with him.

أوكي

Okay

صح ما فيه يشوفها لوقت مأخر

It's true that he sees her for a late time.

بس الفرق أنه هو بيشوفها

The only difference is that he sees her.

فيه يشوفها كل يوم

He sees her every day.

فيه يظهر معه كل يوم

He shows up with him every day.

فيه يروح يسهر عندها بالبات

He goes to spend the night at her place.

كل يوم

Every day

فيه يكون قريب من عيلتها

He will be close to her family.

يكونوا صحبة

They are companions.

بس اللي بده الشب

But whoever wants the guy.

أنه بس واحدة بتجي لها تظهر

It's just one that appears to her.

وتسهر معه

And you stay awake with him.

هيدا

This

هيدا صراحة عم بيقضي وقت هلأ

This is honestly just spending time right now.

هك عمره هلأ

He's this age now.

هو حابب هيدا العمر

He loves this age.

بيقضي

He spends.

وبعدين

And then?

طب لكن لما الشب بده يتجوز

Okay, but when does the guy want to get married?

بيدور على بنت بات

Looking for a girl named Pat.

شو يعني بنت بات؟

What does "bat girl" mean?

بنت بات

Bat girl

هلأ كما اشتاك

Now how much did he miss?

بنت بات

Bat girl

يعني هيدا البنت

This means this girl.

ما عليها حكي

There's nothing to say about it.

يعني أنت بتحاول تستفسره

You mean you are trying to inquire from him.

أنه هيدا البنت ما عليها حكي

This girl has no complaints against her.

حلأ ما فيه أنا أجي أقولك

There's nothing to say, I'll come tell you.

أنه ما فيه ولا بنت غلطانة

There is not a single girl at fault.

مانا غلطانة بحياتها

I am not wrong in my life.

كل عالم بتغلط

Every scholar makes mistakes.

وأوقات الإنسان بيعرف

"And a person's times are known."

أنه إذا عن جد مثلا

That if for real, for example.

هيدا البنت غلطانة

This girl is mistaken.

بس هي عارفة غلطة

But she knows it's a mistake.

وصايرة مرة وحدة

And it happened all at once.

من وراء واحد

Behind one.

أوك

Okay

شو يعني بنت بات؟

What does "bat girl" mean?

هلأ أنت عم تحولتني بتفاصيل

Now you are transforming me with details.

يعني أنت بدك تجي تتجوز

So you want to come and get married?

أوك

Okay

بركة أنت اللي بتحبها

You are the blessing that you love.

أو اللي حبيتها

Or the one I loved.

أو أنت كنت مع بنت

Or you were with a girl.

وأنتم مساحبين

And you are companions.

وما كنت أنت قابضة جد

And you were not holding on tightly.

لهيدا العلاقة

For this relationship.

حبيتها

I loved her.

أوك

Okay

حبيتها عرفت

I loved her, I knew.

تعلقت فيها

I got attached to her.

تعودت عليها

I got used to her.

حبيتها بس مانا

I loved her, but I'm not.

مش البنت لمجتمعك

Not the girl for your society.

بيتقبلها

He accepts her.

مش البنت

Not the girl.

وحبيتها

And I loved her.

حبيتها لها

I loved her for it.

هي غير

She is different.

بس أنت حبيتها

But you loved her.

حبيتها بكل شي

I loved her in every way.

أنت مش كنت متوقع

You weren't expecting it, right?

أنك تحبها

That you love her.

وبتصير

And it becomes

مين بتتجوز؟

Who is getting married?

هايدي أو بنت البيت؟

Heidi or the girl of the house?

ما تكذب

Don't lie.

لأيك

For you.

قلت لك

I told you.

قلت لك لحالك

I told you alone.

ودات حالك لهم

And what is your situation with them?

أوك

Okay

هلأ أنا

Now I am

بالنهاية كشاب

In the end, as a young man.

وابن بيئة

And the son of an environment.

لا لا

No, no.

بدي بات بحرك

I want to go out.

أوك

Okay

وكأبن بيئة

As a child of the environment.

كاللي نحن مربين

Like the ones we raised.

ووعين علي

And I have set my sights on.

أوك

Okay

أنا قد ما فيي

I can do as much as I can.

بحاول

I'm trying.

ما أنه

What is it?

أتعلق بهك بنت

I am attached to your daughter.

أوك

Okay

حط لي ميت

Put me a dead one.

طب بركة هيد هي ستيلك

Well, that’s still your style.

بس إذا صار وما صار

But if it happens and it doesn't happen.

وأنا حبيتها

And I loved her.

أوك

Okay

هون ساعتها

Here is its time.

إذا عن جد أنا حبيتها

If I really loved her.

أو إذا أنا عن جد مأكد

Or if I am really sure.

أنه هي عن جد حبيتني

She really loved me.

أوك

Okay

وبدييني

And my religion.

وأنا عارف كل شي عن ماضيها

And I know everything about her past.

في الواحد يكب ورا ظهره

In a single moment, it pours behind his back.

ويعيش مع الشخص اللي بيحبه

And he lives with the person he loves.

كرمال إذا عايش مع شخص ما بيحبه

For the sake of living with someone he doesn't love.

بس انجبر

But I have to.

بس أنتوا أنتوا رجال

But you, you are men.

بس نحن عم نحكي شي واقع

But we are talking about a real situation.

أنتوا رجال

You are men.

عادة

Usually

ممكن تقليك

Can you speak to me?

يعني كتير شباب مثلا

It means a lot of young people, for example.

بيحب المرأة

He loves the woman.

بيتعلق فيها بإشياء

It is related to things.

مختلفة كتفاصيل

Different in details.

يعني

It means.

بيرتاح معها

He feels comfortable with her.

بيحب يقضي وقت معها

He loves to spend time with her.

يظهر معها

It shows with her.

يسافر معها

He travels with her.

يمكن

It is possible.

إشياء كتير هيك

Many things like that.

بس أنتوا أكتريت الأمرار

But you are the majority of the matter.

الرجال

The men

لما بيجوا بدون يتجوزوا

When they come to get married.

بيقولوا نفس الجملة

They say the same sentence.

أنه أنا

That it is me.

بدي أتجوز بنت البت

I want to marry the girl of the girl.

شو يعني بنت البت

What does it mean, "the daughter of the girl"?

أول شي من وين جاي بينا أنتوا

The first thing is, where are you coming from?

يعني

It means.

أنتوا بنت البت

You are the daughter of the girl.

يعني لما طالع عليها خبرية

It means when I heard the news about her.

أو لما كان عندها علاقة كاملة قبل كون

Or when she had a complete relationship before being.

أو يعني

Or I mean.

الفكرة هي

The idea is

أنه هايدي يعني معناته أنه لقدام

It means that Heidi means ahead.

ما حتعمل ولا غلط

You won't do anything wrong.

ما حتشايبك

I won't forget you.

بلى

Yes.

ما حتوجعلك راسك

It won't hurt your head.

هايدي أكيد

Heidi for sure.

طيب

Okay.

إذا كيف بتعتمدوا

So how do you rely on it?

على الخيار

On the choice

لخيار الزواج عند كون

For the option of marriage at being.

هيك

Like this.

لأيك الشاب

For you, young man.

كشاب

Like a young man.

عنده غيرة منا طبيعية

He has a natural jealousy towards us.

حلأ أنت يمكن تقليلي أنه الشباب

You can tell me that it's the youth.

بيزيدوها بالغيرة كرمال بغارة عليك

They increase it with jealousy for the sake of a raid on you.

لا

No

الشاب بس يكون عن جد بيحب

The young man just needs to truly love.

عنده غيرة مطبيعية

He has an unnatural jealousy.

إذا بشوف أنا كأنا

If I see, I'm like أنا.

إذا بشوف حدا عم يحاول يحكي البنت

If I see someone trying to talk to the girl.

اللي بحكي معها أو يتطلع فيها

Whoever talks to her or looks at her.

أو أي شي بجن

Or anything on the side.

صراحة

Honestly

فالفرق

So the difference

هلأ فيه بنات بات منهم تمام

Now there are girls who are really great.

عادي يعني وفيه بنات بات تمام

It’s normal, I mean, and there are girls who are fine.

بس الفرق أنه أنا

But the difference is that I

اللي أنا بفضل نقيها لبعدين

What I prefer to leave for later.

غير أنه كبنت بات

However, as a girl, it has remained.

أنه ما طلع عليها حكي

He didn't say anything about her.

بس أنه فيه أنا عندي تفكيري

But I have my own thoughts.

بشوف إذا هيدا البنت بتناسب تفكيري

I'll see if this girl fits my thinking.

ولا ما بتناسب تفكيري

Or it doesn't suit my thinking.

أوكي

Okay

فوخصوصي أنت قلت لي كيف

Especially, you told me how.

الواحد أنه فيه قصص الواحد بيتعلق فيها

The thing is that there are stories one gets attached to.

بالبنت من ولا شي

The girl is from nothing.

صح؟ أوكي

Right? Okay.

طيب هلأ مثلا كأنا كشاب بغار

Okay, so for example, as a young man, I feel jealous.

على البنت اللي بحبها واللي بحكي معها

About the girl I love and talk to.

أوكي

Okay

ظهرها هي وأصحابها ظهرها عادية

Her back and her friends' backs are normal.

ويمكن يجي شاب

A young man might come.

من هار رفقاتها ويقعد معهم

She has been separated from her friends and sits with them.

آه

Ah

يلا بلش تلقى العقاد

Come on, start looking for the contracts.

ففيه عندك نوعان من البنات

In it, you have two types of girls.

فيه عندك بنت قد حالة

There is a girl in a difficult situation.

وبنت مش قد حالة

And the girl is not in good condition.

رح أشرح لك قبل ما تسأليني وتساوي بقى علي

I will explain to you before you ask me and make it difficult for me.

أوكي البنت اللي قد حالة

Okay, the girl is in a condition.

لما يحاول هيدا بده يحكي معها

When he tries, he wants to talk to her.

بده ياخد رقمه بده يتقرب منها

He wants to get his number; he wants to get closer to her.

تعرف تحطله لميت تحطله حدود

You know how to set boundaries for him like you're putting a limit.

وبس تعطيه مرة واحدة حدود

And just give it to him once with limits.

هو لحاله رح يصغر قدامه

He will look smaller in front of him by himself.

ويتحجم وما بقى يفكر

He shrinks back and no longer thinks.

أما بتجي بتقلك حياتي والله

"She comes and tells you, 'My life, I swear.'"

سوري استحيت ما عرفت كيف

I'm sorry, I felt shy and didn't know how.

عطيته رقمي

I gave him my number.

كيف أنت

How are you?

استحيت وما عرفت كيف عطيته رقمك

I felt shy and didn't know how to give him your number.

طب أنا كشاب

Well, as a young man...

مين اللي بتستحى؟

Who is the one that feels shy?

اللي مانا قد حاله

"Whoever is not up to their situation."

يعني ما بقى خاص إذا بنت بيت أم لا أقوم

It means it doesn't matter whether she is a daughter of a house or not, I will do it.

فعم بقلك أنا أنه حسب الواحد

So I'm telling you that it depends on the person.

أنا عم بحكيك فيه أوقات بنات بيت

I’m telling you, sometimes it’s about the girls at home.

ممكن أنت يمشي حالك معهم

Can you manage to get along with them?

مجرد بني بنات بيت

Just the children of the house.

ما يمشي حالك معهم

You won't get along with them.

فليه ممكن يمشي حالك معهم

So it's possible for you to get along with them.

يمكن يكون فيه عندك نوعا من هالبنات

There might be a type of these girls with you.

أنا عم أقول لك مثلا أنا بحب البنت

I'm telling you, for example, I like the girl.

اللي بتكون قد حالة

"Those who are in a situation."

اللي بتعرف كيف تتصرف

The one who knows how to behave.

لإذا أنا ما كنت أنا هي ضاهرة

If I were not me, it would be a phenomenon.

أنا بكون مريح راسي

I will be relaxing my mind.

بل كي ما أنا بنت بيت

I am a house girl.

قلت لك ما أنه شي شرط

I told you it's not a condition.

أنه لازم تكون بنت بيت

You have to be a house girl.

بس أنا قلت لك ما فيه حدا ما أنه غلطان

But I told you that there is no one who is not wrong.

بحياته بس أنا بقدر سامح

In his lifetime, but I can forgive.

حسب شو الغلط بقدر سامح

According to what is wrong, I can forgive.

أقول لك ده فيه رجال بتخون نسوانة

I tell you there are men cheating on their wives.

لأنه

Because

مش مندمجين هني وياها

They are not integrated with her.

يعني هيد المرة اللي هو

This means this time, which is him.

بيجي فيها على البيت هي بنت بيت

She comes home, she is a girl from a good family.

على أولته

On his first instance.

وجاب

And he brought.

من بيت أهله

From his family's house.

لبيته

I answered him.

وهو كل شي باقي

"And he is everything that remains."

بده يعيشه بحياته ما فيها

He wants to live it in his life, but it’s not possible.

يتكون معه يعني مثلا

It consists of him, meaning for example.

في كتير رجال مثلا بيكونوا

There are many men, for example, who are...

بيعرف حاله هو أنه بيصهر بيظهر

He knows that he melts when he shows up.

وإكسي تقع كل هول

And Ixi experiences all the horror.

بروح بتجوز وحدة محجبة مثلا

"I'm going to marry a hijab-wearing woman, for example."

هيدا شو نضرب عمخه

What is this that we hit against it?

يعني يا عم يبلي

It means "I mean, come on, man."

هفي يعه هو عم بيبلي هون

He is currently my uncle's staff here.

تنينتهم بحيات هني مش هيتلاقوا فيها

Their lives will not be found in this reality.

لرجال ما عنده مشكل يحط مرة ببيته

For a man, it’s no problem to put it at home once.

هو وياها

He is with her.

ما بيلتقوا

They don't meet.

وكتير موجودة

And there is a lot available.

ما خصهم ببعض

What is specific to them among others?

يعني هي كتير جامدة

It means she's really cool.

هو كتير مهايبر

He is very showy.

هي كتير

She is a lot.

مثلا ملتزمة

For example, committed.

هو كتير ما بعرف شو

He often doesn't know what.

هي مثلا

For example.

مش بعرفني بتحب

I don't know if you love me.

مثلاً الحياة الاجتماعية هو ما بحب يظهر

For example, social life is what I love to show.

بس لأنه هي

Just because it's her.

بنت بات

Bat girl

وهايدا الشيء أكيد غلط

And this thing is definitely wrong.

معنا كرمال هيك قلت لك أنه الواحد بدي يشوف

"That's why I told you that one should see."

مش إذا بنت بات يمكن عقله يركب عقله

"Doesn't she know that her daughter might bring him to his senses?"

من نهاية الجواز

From the end of the passport.

مرحلة الجواز

Stage of the passport

الواحد بيتجوز ليه يرتاح

"Why does one get married? To find comfort."

وليه ينبسط

And why he should be happy?

وكرمال هيدا الشريكة حياتك

And for the sake of this partner, your life.

أنت مكفي معها أول عآخر

You are enough for her, from start to finish.

فأنت إذا عن جد بدك ياها

So if you really want it.

بتنقيها مثل ما أنت

You filter it just like you.

مثل ما أنت تفكيرك

Just like your thinking.

مثل ما أنت بتتصرف

Just like you are acting.

كيف جوك كيف جو رفقاتك

How are you, and how are your friends?

كيف كل هالتفاصيل

How are all these details?

أنت هيك بتنقيها

That's how you choose it.

إذا أنت كنت مع بنت وهيدا البنت

If you were with a girl and this girl...

خنتك

I betrayed you.

يعني أنت كنت مع بنت

It means you were with a girl.

وعم بتحبها لهيدا البنت

"Do you love this girl?"

بتحبها

Do you love her?

بتقوم أنت بتكتشف

You are discovering.

أنه خنتك

I betrayed you.

الرجال شو بحس لما بينخان

What do men feel when they are betrayed?

يعني شو بيكون شعوره لما بينخان

What does it feel like when someone is betrayed?

الإنسان

The human.

أنا الشاب لما بينخان

I am the young man who is not deceived.

أول شي بيفتش

The first thing he looks for.

وهيدا هو الشي الغلط

And this is the wrong thing.

أنه شو عنده هيدا الشخص بوجه

What does this person have on their face?

أنا ما عنديه لراحت خنتني معه

I don't have peace because you cheated on me with him.

الرجال هيك بيفكر

Men think like this.

هيدا أول شغلة

This is the first thing.

تاني شي بيتطلع بيفكر أنه أنا بشو قصرت

The second thing is that he thinks about what I have failed at.

لراحت عملت هيك

I did this for my comfort.

بس عطيه

Just give it to him.

بعدك هون بعدك شوي عم بتعطينا هي على الخفيف

You're still here, you're still giving us a little bit of this lightly.

عطينا الدوزة المظبوطة

Give us the right dose.

الرجال شو بيحس

What do men feel?

هول شو اللي بيفكر

What the hell is he thinking?

أوكي بيفكر فيهم بس شو بيحس

Okay, he thinks about them, but what does he feel?

يعني شو أحساس الخيانة

What does the feeling of betrayal mean?

بحس أحساس كتير بشع

I feel a very unpleasant sensation.

يعني ما بينوصف

It means it cannot be described.

حتى هيدا الشغلة ممكن كتير تأثر عليها

This thing can greatly affect her.

بعدها يبطل عنده ثقة

Then he loses trust in him.

بحاله؟ مش بحاله

In a state? Not in a state.

إذا أنا هلا أجي اتعرفت عليك

So, can I come and get to know you now?

يمكن أول فترة ما يكون عندي ثقة حتى لا أقدر أحكي معك

At first, I might not have confidence, so I won't be able to talk to you.

أوكي

Okay

بيصير عنده كتير نقط استفهام

He has a lot of question marks.

وبيفكر وبيعمل 100 حساب وحساب

And he thinks and calculates a hundred accounts and considerations.

قبل ما يرجع يتعرف على بنت تانية

Before he gets to know another girl.

أوكي

Okay

يعني بيخل عنده كذا شي صح؟

It means he has several things, right?

صح

Correct.

ليه لكن بما أنه رجال

Why, but since he is a man.

كيف ينتقم من الخيانة الرجال؟

How do men take revenge for betrayal?

عندك كتير رجال بتفكر

You have many men who think.

أنه أنا بدي روح أحكي مع رفقاتها

I want to go talk to her friends.

ومش رح أترك قريبينها

And I will not leave her close ones.

صح

Correct.

هيدا أنا بالنسبة إلي شي

This is something for me.

وبدي روح أخبر وهاكي

I want to go tell them and this.

أنا بالنسبة إلي هيدا الشي ما إلو عاوزي

As for me, this thing is not important to me.

أوكي

Okay

كرمل هي بس فكرت تدخونك

Karmel just thought of smoking you.

ما فكرت لا بقريبينها ولا برفقاتها ولا كان هما بقى أنتا

I didn't think about her relatives or her friends, nor was it really about you.

ما رح يكون هما ما هي ده جامعة واحد تاني

It won't be the same; it's a different university.

طيب في شباب بتكون بدها تنتقم

Okay, there are young people who want to take revenge.

بيقلها أنه أنا بدي أفضحك

He tells her that he wants to expose her.

حكي اللي بتروح بتخون

Those who leave will betray.

ما فرقني معها

What separated me from her.

بس هو بيقلها بدي أفضحك مثلا

But he's telling her, "I want to expose you," for example.

هيدا انتقام؟ لا منو انتقام

Is this revenge? No, it's not revenge.

الانتقام أنا بقلك أي متى بيجي

Revenge, I'll tell you when it will come.

أي متى؟ في شغلة بتقول

When exactly? There's something that says.

اترك مرة أفعالهم للزمن

Leave their actions to time.

فكل صاكن

So everyone is settled.

سيسقى بما سقى

He will be given drink based on what he has provided.

وأنا هيدا الشغلة بآمن كتير فيها يعني

And I really believe in this thing a lot.

لأفسرك يا تروك القصص اللي عملوها غلط معك

"I will explain to you the stories that they did wrong with you."

الوقت هو اللي رح يجي يحاسبهم

Time will come and hold them accountable.

كيف الوقت بيجي بيحاسبهم؟

How does time come to hold them accountable?

كيف؟ يمكن الشخص اللي راحوا معه

How? Is it possible for the person who went with him?

يطلع أضرب منهم

I will strike them harder.

يعوفن حالهم

They leave their situation.

وخصوصي وأنا مؤكد لما يكون

Especially since I'm sure when it happens.

عن جد شاب عم بيحب البنت

A young man is truly in love with the girl.

بيحبها من قلبه

He loves her from his heart.

وتروح تعمل هيك

And you go and do that.

رح يقرف منها

He will be disgusted by her.

رح ينفر رح يبطل

He will turn away, he will stop.

يسمع لها صوتها ولا اسمها

He hears her voice but not her name.

ولا أي شي

And nothing at all.

ورح يجي هي بيوم من الأيام تعرف أنه أنا

"And one day she will find out that it's me."

عن جد هيدا الشاب اللي كان لازم يكون معه

This is really the young man who should have been with him.

وأنا هبلات

And I am foolish.

وما فكرت ورحت مع شاب تاني

And I didn't think and went with another guy.

سو بدو يقعد ينطرها يعني؟

So he wants to sit and wait for her?

ما في داعي ينطرها هي رح تجي لحالها

No need to wait for her; she will come on her own.

أوكي شو بيعمل هو بهيدا الوقت؟

Okay, what does he do at this time?

بهيدا الوقت أنت ركز على حالك

At this time, focus on yourself.

ركز على حالك

Focus on yourself.

على أهدافك بتوصل

You will reach your goals.

حتى لو ما رجعت بس تشوفك أنت شخص ناجح

Even if I don't come back, just seeing you as a successful person is enough.

وطموح وواصل

Ambitious and continuous.

هي لحالها رح تكون ندمانة بينه وبين حالها

She will regret it on her own, between herself and her own heart.

طيب عندي سؤال بعد

Okay, I have another question.

بما أنه الخيانة

Since it is betrayal.

آه

Ah

هل قد بتلمسوا للرجال؟

Do you sometimes touch the men?

ليه ببسطها

Why do I simplify it?

لما هو بيخون المرأة؟

Why does he betray the woman?

كتير منيح قلت لك عندك نوعان فرق

Very good, I told you there are two types of differences.

لما هو يكون

When he will be.

عن جد مع وحدة

Seriously with a girl.

هيدا نوعان موجود بس عنكم

This type is only available with you.

عنا نحنا بدك تحكي لغة

About us, you want to speak a language.

لغة العامة

The language of the public.

الخيانة

Betrayal

هي أنك أنت رحت كنت مع وحدة

It's that you went to be with someone.

أحدا تاني

Someone else.

مثل ما هي إذا خنتك

Just as it is if I betray you.

إن شاء الله مرة إن شاء الله عشر مرات

God willing, once, God willing, ten times.

هي بهيدا اللحظات كانت لحدا غيرها

At this moment, she belonged to someone else.

أو ما حدا نغيرك

Or no one can change you.

أنت بنفس الوقت بهول اللحظات

You are at the same time in the horror of moments.

كنت ما حدا نغيرها

I was the only one who changed it.

شو فرقت؟

What difference does it make?

أوكي كتير منيح البنت ما فيها تخون كرمال شي

Okay, it's very good that the girl can't betray for anything.

البنت بتروح بتخون

The girl goes and cheats.

كرمال شخص تاني

For someone else.

عجبها

She liked it.

صار أي شي اهتمام زيادة

Anything has become of increased interest.

أي تفصيل

Any detail?

فهون البنت بيبطل عقلة أساسا معه

Here, the girl essentially loses her mind with him.

لللي هي دجا عم تحكي معه

For the one who is talking to Dja.

بيصير عقلة مع هيداك الشاب يعني بطل هما هيدا شو عم يعمل

It becomes a puzzle with that young man, meaning he no longer cares about what he is doing.

أوكي

Okay

الشاب لما بده يروح أوكي

The young man when he wants to go, okay.

تخون حبيبته

She betrays her lover.

اللي هي اللي متل ما قلتلك فيه

It is what I told you about.

نوعاً أنا راح اتخنت

I am going to get fat.

مثلاً حبيبتي مع واحدة

For example, my love is with someone.

إن شاء الله فكرك أنه أنا هم إذا هي ظهرت مع واحد تاني

God willing, you think that I will be upset if she shows up with someone else.

هيدا ولا عم تحكي حدا

Are you talking to someone or not?

ولا ما عم تحكي حدا أنا رحت

I didn't talk to anyone, I left.

خلصت

It is finished.

الظهرة تعولتي أنا وياها

I relied on her at sunset.

ورجعت لا بعرفها ولا بتعرفني

And I returned, neither do I know her nor does she know me.

يعني الفرق

It means the difference.

So emotion لي ما عانت لك؟

So emotion, what did it suffer for you?

ما عانت لي أبداً ولا واحد بالمئة ولا بفكر فيها

It has never bothered me even one percent, nor do I think about it.

أساساً ويمكن شوفها تاني يوم ظهرها مع واحد تاني

Basically, you can see her the next day with someone else.

ومرة تانية ما بيعني للموضوع

And once again, it doesn't mean anything to the subject.

بس البنت إذا شافت

But if the girl saw.

لما تتعلق بواحد

When you become attached to someone.

وتشوفه تاني يوم ظهر مع واحدة

And you see him the next day appearing with someone.

ولا إيرادية راح تكون جن وخو تاني

And there will be no revenue; it will be another spirit.

So البنت

So the girl

ما بتقدر تخون

You can't betray.

إلا إذا كان عندها

Unless she has it.

مشاعر

Emotions

الرجال بيقدر يخون بلا مشاعر

Men can cheat without emotions.

فمثل ما قلت

Just as I said.

الرجال وفي بمشاعره

Men are sincere in their feelings.

كثير وبس يحب

A lot and just loves.

بس أيام والأيام علي أنا لما قلت هيك

Just days, and the days are on me when I said that.

ليك كرمال أنت

For you, just for you.

عطيتهن كثير

I gave them a lot.

وأنا تأثرت كمان لعبة

I was also affected by the game.

تأثرت يعني شوف أديم النهارة

"I was affected, I mean, look at the oldness of the daytime."

لا بس عن جد هني

It's okay, really, they are.

الرجال عنده

The men are with him.

مشاعر هيك

Such feelings.

لما بيحب كثير غريبة

When he loves, it's very strange.

صح

Correct

بعد عندي سؤال

I have a question.

لما حبيت أنت

When I loved you.

أكيد حبيت بحياتك

Sure, I loved you in my life.

شو أخذت درس من هيدا الحب؟

What lesson did you learn from this love?

أنه

It is that

ما بقى أعطي أكثر ما بياخد

I can't give more than what he takes.

يعني أنا كنت أعطي كثير

It means I used to give a lot.

وياخد أقل

And he takes less.

لماذا؟

Why?

لماذا؟ كرمال أنت قلتها الرجال واقف بمشاعر

Why? Because you said that men stand with feelings.

ويمكن هيدا كان أول حب عندي

This could have been my first love.

وواعي أنا علي

And I am aware of myself.

حبيت كثير

I loved it a lot.

بطلت وواعي حالي أنا أساساً

I stopped and I am aware of my situation already.

حبيبها بطلت أنا وواعي حالي شو عم بيصير

I stopped being her love and I am aware of what is happening.

أوكي

Okay

كنت أخفي كثير عليها كنت غار كثير عليها كل شي، كل شي ممكن أن yayla تتوقعي كنت أنا فيه

I was hiding a lot from her; I was very jealous of her about everything, everything you could possibly imagine, I was involved in.

بيجي يوم من الأيام اللي اكتشفته و اللي شفته أنه ما كنت أنا مع الشخص الصح كثير روحت من حياتي

There comes a day when I realized and saw that I wasn't with the right person, so I left their life.

كرمالة

Kirmalah

في وقتها ما كنت شايف أنه هي منّا

At the time, I didn't see that she was one of us.

لا

No

يعني ما كنت شايف أنك أنت عم تتعلق

I mean I didn't think you were getting attached.

بشخص الغلط

With the wrong person.

بس بعدين

But later.

بس اكتشفت هيدا الشي

I just discovered this thing.

ومن بعد ما تركنا دجا أول مرة

And after we left the darkness for the first time.

ما بعرف

I don't know.

شو الشعور اللي بيجي

What feeling comes?

أنه أنت خلص هيدا الشخص الغلط

You have mistaken this person.

وأنت دجا معه

And you are with him in the darkness.

بس أنت تعلقت فيه زيادة

But you became attached to him more.

سؤال لك

A question for you.

الإنسان عادة

Human nature

خاصة الرجال

Especially men.

باعتقادات

By beliefs

يعني أنت رجال بتعرف أكتر

It means you are a man who knows more.

بس أنتوا رجال

But you are men.

كل ما كان التحدي كبير

The greater the challenge, the better.

كل ما كانت اللزة

The more pleasure there was.

أكبر

Bigger

أنه أقدر كون قد التحدي

"I am capable of facing the challenge."

لهيك الرجال

That's why the men.

لما بيكون مع مرة

"When he's with a woman."

وبتكون هيدا المرة

And this time it will be.

منا مناسبة

It's an occasion.

من كذا مطرح

From this place.

وخاصة إذا كانت منا مناسبة

Especially if it is an occasion for us.

وراسها كبير

And her head is big.

أو منا مناسبة

Or on an occasion

وأساسا هي بعدها أنه

And basically, it is after that...

مشي

Walking

باللي هي رسميته لنفسها

"That it is her official capacity."

يعني هي هيك

It means it's like that.

عم تفرض عليه

You are imposing it on him.

شخصيتها

Her personality.

التحدي الكبير تاعه بيكون الرجال هون

His big challenge is the men here.

لأنه هو بيعرف

Because he knows.

الرجال ضمنها

The men within it.

أنه المرة لما بتحب

It's when you love.

بتصير إنسان تاني

You become another person.

يعني إذا حبته

It means if you love him.

في أن المرة

In the time of the moment

بتطلع بتغير دينها

She is considering converting her religion.

كرم الرجال

The generosity of men.

إذا حبته

If you love him.

حتى لو هي بحياتها ما كانت تتخيل تترك

Even if she never imagined in her life that she would leave.

أهلها لتسافر بتسافر لعنده

Her family will travel to him.

بتعيش معه

You live with him.

إذا حبته

If you love him.

لنقول بتوقف شغل كرماله

Let's say to stop working for his sake.

إذا حبته بتنهبل يعني

If you love him, you'll go crazy.

فهو بهيدا الوقت

At this time, he/she is...

اللي هي مش عم تنهبل فيه

"Which she is not going crazy about."

هو عم ينهبل

He is losing his mind.

هو عم ينهبل فيه صار لأنه

He is going crazy because of it now.

بدوها تحبه

She seems to love him.

فبصير

So it becomes.

غير إنه هو عم بحبه

Except that he loves him.

بصير هو صار عنده

He has become.

obsession تاني

obsession again

إنه ليه محبتناه

He is why we loved him.

إنه هو عارف حتى لو بتقلو بموت فيك

He knows it even if I tell him I'm dying for you.

الرجال بيعرف إنه المرة

Men know that the woman...

لما بتحب

When you love.

بدها تتغير

It needs to change.

فيه شي بده يتغير فيها

There is something that needs to change in her.

أمرالي كتير بتغير كتير إشي بدون ما هو يطلبن منها

He often changes a lot of things without her asking for it.

عشان ما تزعجوه عشان ما تدايقوه

So that you don't disturb him so that you don't annoy him.

عشان ما تعصبوه

So that you don't get angry.

لأنا بتحبوه

Because you love him.

يعني يمكن لحالة تقطش لشباب معينة

It means there can be a situation of cutting off for certain youth.

يمكن لحالة تغير طريقة لبسها

Her change in clothing style is possible.

وإذا قال لها ما بتقلو لا

And if he tells her, "Don't say no."

يعني

It means.

تعرف أنت البنت لما بتحب يعني

You know when a girl loves, it means...

شو بتسيطر

What do you control?

مستعدة

Ready

تعرض له وتقدم له

Expose him to it and present it to him.

فرجال لما بيكون

"Men when they are"

مع المرة

Next time.

اللي ما بتقدم له هول التنازلات

Those who do not receive such concessions.

بينه بين حاله أكيد

Between him and his situation, there is surely a difference.

عارف إنه هيدا بعدها محبتنا

I know that this is still our love.

فأنتو

So you all

رجال دايما

Men always.

بتحبوا المرة

Do you love the woman?

اللي هي بتحبكم

She loves you.

أقل من ما أنتو بتحبوها

Less than what you love it.

بس بتتجاوزوا المرة اللي بتجي تعود

But you forget the time that comes to get used to it.

لكم النقص

You have the deficiency.

اللي ما أخدتوه من هيديك

What you didn't take from that.

فلهاك دايما

So keep yourself always busy.

الزواج عم بيكون

Marriage is happening.

غلط

Wrong

لأنه

Because

بيصير عندو إيجو الرجال لدرجة

He develops a male ego to the point that

أنه بيصير ما بقى بدو يجرب مع نسوان

He doesn't want to try with women anymore.

الصعبة

the difficult

يعني خلاص بروحند هيدي

It means, "Okay, I'm going to go now."

اللي أنتو سميتها بنت البات

What you called the girl of the bat.

اللي هي ناطرها أساسا حدا نجي

The one she is basically waiting for someone to come.

يتجوزها ويلا

He marries her and that's it.

حلو

Sweet.

طيب سؤال

Okay, a question.

لما أنتو لما أنا كشاب

Why are you when I'm a young man?

بيكون في شي بيضيقنا

There will be something that bothers us.

أوكي

Okay

والبنت بتعرف أنه هيدا شي بيضيقنا

And the girl knows that this thing bothers us.

لابد تصير تعملها أصلا

You must do it after all.

ما تقليلي ما عندونيها

Don't tell me I don't have it.

عندونيها كتير

They oppressed us a lot.

هلا مش كتير كتير

Hi, not too much.

بس أنه في

But there is in

أنه في بنات

There are daughters.

عندها هيدي الشغلة

This is the thing.

أكيد أنا ما قلت

Of course, I didn't say that.

أنا ما قلت أنه ما عندونيها

I didn't say that I don't have it.

بس البنت عادة

But the girl usually...

فيه كلات نقاط بيخلوها تعمل

There are certain points that allow it to work.

إشي عكس من ما الشاب عم بيطلب منها

Something opposite to what the guy is asking her for.

أول شي

First thing

يا هوي كمان ما عم بيعمل الإشي

Oh my, it's not working either.

اللي هي عم تطلب

What she is asking for.

منه

From him.

فهي بالنسبة لألع

It is related to games.

ليه أنا بدي أعمل وأنت ما عملت

Why should I do it when you didn't do it?

اتنين بيكون أهرة بشي

Two people are hungry for something.

فهي بيبدأ

It starts.

بالمقابل

On the contrary.

تفرجي أنه أنا كمان فيه

"Look, I am also there."

أهرك

Ahrak

وتالت نقطة

And the third point.

بتكون رفيقتها عم بتقلها

Her friend is telling her.

أنت جبت حالك لمطرح

You brought yourself to a place.

خلي ناطره

Let her wait.

شو رأيك بهول بنات

What do you think of these girls?

اللي كل ما تحكيها شي

"Whoever you tell something to."

بتروح بتخبر صديقتها

She goes and tells her friend.

وأنا برجع بعطيك رأي

And I'll give you my opinion later.

أم

Mother

رأيي بهول بنات

My opinion about these girls.

أول شي نحن بطبيعتنا نحن النسوان

The first thing is that by nature, we women...

ما منقدر نسكت

We can't stay silent.

يعني ما فينا نفكر

It means we cannot think.

على صوت واطي

In a low voice.

فعادة إذا ما بعرف إذا شمرة

So usually, I don't know if it's a poke.

سمعت بنت عم تخبر بنات

I heard my cousin's daughter telling the girls.

ما بتنطرها

Don't wait for her.

شو بدها تجاوبها

What does she want to respond to her?

أو ما بتنطرها هيديك شو بدها تنصحها

Or what are you waiting for, what advice do you want to give her?

بتكون كأنه شو فيه بمخها

It’s like there’s something going on in her head.

دودو دودو دودو عامل هيك

Dodo Dodo Dodo is acting like this.

قال هيك وعملت هيك وقلت هيك

He said this, and I did that, and I said this.

كأنه عم بتفكر على صوت عالي

As if he is thinking out loud.

أنا ما عم بتفكر على صوت عالي

I'm not thinking out loud.

مشكلة بفكرة أنه هي تحكي

The problem is the idea that she talks.

أنا دايماً بقل لهم

I always tell them.

مشكلتي أنتوا شو عم تسمعوا

My problem is what you are listening to.

وشو عم بتطبقوا

What are you implementing?

لأنه هون عم نقع بالكارثة

Because here we are falling into disaster.

أنه رفيقتك اللي عم بتقلك

It's your companion who is telling you.

شو بتعرف عنك

What do you know about yourself?

طيب لنقول حفزيتك

Alright, let's say I encouraged you.

شو بتعرف عنه

What do you know about him?

طيب لقول أنا بتعرفكم

Okay, let me introduce myself to you.

اتنينتكم هي بتعرف شو أنت

Both of you know what you are.

عم بتعاني من جوا

"I'm suffering inside."

لا وخاصة أنه

No, especially since it

نحن البنات

We are the girls.

من يعني منحب دايماً

Who do we always love?

منفكر عم نعطي الباور للتانية

We're thinking of giving the power to the second one.

آه ويلا وشو بدك فيه

Oh, come on, what do you want with it?

ونحن عارفين أنه هي

And we know that it is her.

ما فيهاش أساساً

It doesn't have a basis at all.

يلا ترى هي رح يرجع بعد جمعة

Come on, she will be back after a week.

بعد جمعة بتلاقيها بالصهرة موش ست سبع نسوان

After Friday, you find her at the gathering, not six or seven women.

وهونيك بتدقلها

"And there you can get in."

ومبلشة بكها ودموع

And I am overwhelmed with sorrow and tears.

صح

Correct.

فأكيد ما فيك تغير طبع المرأة

Surely you can't change a woman's nature.

بنقطة أنه

At the point that

نحن لما منتداق بحاجة نحكي

We need to talk when we are upset.

على صوت عالي

In a loud voice.

بس فيه ناس بتتأثر وناس ما بتتأثر

But there are people who are affected and people who are not affected.

ومعلاً

And with a high voice.

نسوان مع العمر منتعلم إيه

Women, as they age, learn what?

يعني نحن النسوان مع العمر

It means we women with age.

مناخد دروس من رأيوننا بتطلع من هيدا الموضوع

We take lessons from our perspective on this subject.

أنه

That ن

ما فيه رفيقة بتعيش مشكلتها

There's no companion living through her problem.

محلنا

Our store.

أوكي لأقلك أنا فكرتي

Okay, let me tell you my idea.

كلمة أنا ما رأي بها هيدا الشغلة

The word "I" what do I think about this thing?

واحدة كنت أحكي معها

One I was talking to.

كانت تاخد نصيحة من رفيقتها

She was taking advice from her companion.

يعني نكون نحن عم نزبط كل شي

It means we are working on fixing everything.

وأنا منبهها

And I am warning her.

ما تجيب سيري لرفيقتك

Don't tell your friend about me.

أوكي

Okay

شو بتقوم بتعمل

What are you doing?

بتروح بتقلها صارها واحد اثنان ثلاثة

You go and tell her it has been one, two, three.

أوكي

Okay

فرفيقتها بتفكر حالها كتير زكية

She thinks of herself as very smart.

يا زكية يا غيرانة منها

Oh Zakia, you who are envious of her.

فيه اثنان

There are two.

كرمال دايماً البنات في عندهم غيرة عبعد

For the sake of always, girls are always jealous of each other.

منها طبيعية

Natural ones.

عبعد أو من بعد

After or later.

منه من بعد

From him afterward.

منها طبيعية

Natural منها

أوكي

Okay

فبتسيرتهم صحة بأمور وتعبيلها برأسها قصص

Their behavior is correct in some matters, and expressing it in her own way tells stories.

بتطلع هيك بس تعملهم توصل لمطرح

It only happens like this when you reach a certain place.

أنا شو عملت بحالي

What have I done to myself?

أنا شو سويت

What did I do?

أوكي

Okay

أنت هون كشاب بتجي بتقلها

"You are here as a young man, you come and tell her."

أنا قلت لك واحد اثنان ثلاثة

I told you one two three.

واحد اثنان ثلاثة

One two three

شو بتقلك هي لأ عملت هيك

What does she tell you, "I did this"?

ما كنت واعية

I wasn't aware.

كنت معصبة

I was angry.

ما كنت عارفة حالي شو بدأ اتصرف

I didn't know how to behave.

ما كنت هيك وعملت واحد اثنان ثلاثة

I wasn't like this and I did one, two, three.

طب أنت لما عملت واحد اثنان ثلاثة

So when you did one two three

قزمت المشكلة ما حلتها

The problem was trivialized, but it wasn't solved.

أوكي

Okay

مصبوط هي بتكون قزمتها

That's right, it can be her dwarf.

فهون شو بنعمل

So what do we do here?

فهون بيكبر المشكل

Here the problem grows.

بينك وبينها

Between you and her.

بينه وبينها بيكبر كتير

There is a big difference between him and her.

بيكون كنا بمشكلة صرنا بمشكلة تانية

We were in one problem, and now we've become in another problem.

انه ليه بدي كده واحد تسأليها

Why do I want to ask her like that?

وانا بنبهك ما تسأليها

And I'm warning you not to ask her.

شو بتعمل انت هون ردة فعل

What are you doing here as a reaction?

ردة فعل رح كون معصب

My reaction will be that I will be angry.

صراحة ومستفز

Honestly and provoked.

بس انه

But that

اللي فيه اعملوا اول شي لحسسها بالندم

Do what makes her feel regret first.

باخد موقف

I'm taking a stand.

بيقول لها خلي رفيدك هي تفيدك

He says to her, let Rfaid help you.

خليها تنفعك

Let it benefit you.

بيمروا يومين تلاتي انا اخد موقف

A couple of days pass, then I take a stand.

زعلان مني على بعض

I’m upset with you about something.

هي هون شو رح يصير فيها

What will happen to her here?

رح تنهار اكتر

You will collapse more.

ورح تعصب اكتر ورح تعرف

"And you will get more angry and you will know."

انه هي دي فوتتني بالحات

She completely caught me off guard.

فانت بالنسبة لعلك هون بتكون

"You may be here for a reason."

ربيتها

I raised her.

مش تربية

Not upbringing.

بس فكرة انه

But the idea is that

درس

Lesson

يعني ربيتها

It means "I raised her."

عندكن ياها كتير رجال هذي

You have a lot of men here.

بدي ربيها

I want to raise her.

لرب الامل براس كون

For the Lord of hope at the head of the universe.

انت اللي جيت وبلشت فينا

You are the one who came and started with us.

لا بس عندكن ياها

It's okay, you have it with you.

ما تقلي لا

Don't tell me no.

انه بدي اعطيها درس

I want to give her a lesson.

او بدي اخليها تفهم

I want to make her understand.

او بدي اخليها

Or I want to let her go.

عفكرة هيدا موضوع بدي احطه نوت

By the way, this is a topic I want to take note of.

بدي ربيها

I want to raise her.

هيدا بدي احطه نوت لازم اعمل منه فيديو

I want to put this as a note; I need to make a video out of it.

بس عن جد

But seriously.

عندكن ياها كتير هيدا انتوا لا

Do you have a lot of this? Don't you?

كرمال الشاب دايما بحب يكون هول مسيطر

For the sake of the young man, I always like to be in control.

هي بس شاني بدي ربيها

She just wants me to raise her.

يعني انا بعمرال بعض

It means I am at the age of some.

بفكر شاني هو مفكر جاي ربيها

I think my situation is that I am a thinker sent by God.

مثلا انه بدي ربيها

For example, I want to raise her.

فهمها على اساس ما عنده اهل عملوا هيدا الشي

He understood it based on what he had, and his family did this thing.

كرمال هيك انا قلتلك ما فينا

That's why I told you we can't.

عاب نقول ربيها انه

We can't say that God raised her.

بس انتوا هيك بيكون معصدكم

But you guys will be like this, it will be a disaster for you.

سمعتوا صبايا

Did you hear, girls?

وانتوا لما بتجوا بتتبكوا له

"And when you come, you start to cry for him."

بترجعوا بتقولوا له لا وما كان

You keep telling him no, and it wasn't.

قصدي وهيك ايه بيكون رباكم

I mean, that's how it will be raised.

ف

F

ايوش ما مطلع فيها

What are you not aware of?

طيب عندي سؤال لك

Okay, I have a question for you.

وقت الصراحة

Time for honesty

وقت يكون واحد هو معصب بيقول الصراحة

When someone is angry, they speak the truth.

ايوش

Ayesh

يعني شو الوقت اللي بيقول فيه

What does he mean by what time he says?

هو الشخص

He is the person.

الشخص صراحة ان كان شاب ولا بنت عادي

The person, honestly, whether they are a boy or a girl, is normal.

اوكي اول شي

Okay, first thing.

الوقت التعصيب

The time of nerve-racking.

انا ما بيعني بالنسبة لالي انه

It doesn't mean anything to me that...

بيقول الصراحة في كتير ناس

He says honestly there are many people.

وقت التعصيب كتر ما بيكونوا مجروحين

When the time of injury comes, they are often wounded.

بيكون كل هدفهم

Their only goal will be.

انه هني

He is happy.

بس يجرحوا فينا

They just hurt us.

بس حقلك شغلة

But I'll tell you something.

بعتقد انه نحنا

I think that we are

الناس اللي عايشين معهم

The people who live with them.

مش مفروض انه نكون ناطرين

We shouldn't be waiting.

لحظة معينة لنعرف شو عم بدور

A specific moment to know what's going on.

براسهم

On their heads

اوه

Oh

واذا نحنا كنا عنا الزكر كافي

And if we had enough mention.

بعتقد انه كل واحد فينا بيعرف التاني

I believe that each one of us knows the other.

شو حاتت جواته

What are you going to put inside?

شو حائد

What's going on?

شو عنده مشاكل معنا

What problems does he have with us?

وقت المشكل ممكن انه

In times of trouble, it is possible that...

ايه يعني بتجرق لك

What does it mean that it is daring you?

شي

Thing

بس ما انا عارفة قردي

But I don't know my monkey.

انت عارفة قردي انك عملته

You know, my monkey, that you did it.

يعني مثلا شو بدي اجي لك

It means, for example, what should I come to you with?

انت لبتخون

You are cheating.

انت عارف انه شلت لك شي

You know that I took something for you.

اسفجعتك يعني مثلا

I surprised you, meaning for example...

يعني بيقولوا لي انه

They are telling me that...

وقت التعصيب انه الواحد

The time of intensity is when one...

ممكن يقولي الحقيقة

Can you tell me the truth?

انت عارف حقيقتك

You know your truth.

يعني انا شو حق لك شي جديد

So what do I owe you for something new?

ممكن حتجرق لك

It might burn you.

انه انا بعدني ما انسيت

I still haven't forgotten.

او انا بعدني زعلاني

I'm still upset.

بس وقت التعصيب

But during the time of distraction.

اكيد اكيد

Sure, sure.

انه بتجرق قول اشي اكتر

He is daring to say something more.

بس

Just.

امراري كتير الطريقة بتكون غلط

My experience is that the method is often wrong.

هادي اكيد

This is definitely.

بس انا بشوف انه

But I see that...

اذا انت يعني انت هلأ مع صاحبتك

So you mean you are now with your friend?

اكيد بتعرف

You definitely know.

هي شو اللي بيزعجق

What is it that annoys you?

بيزعجق قلدي فيك يعني

It annoys me, you know.

صح

Correct.

وشو المشاكل اللي مش محلولة بينك وبينهم

What are the unresolved issues between you and them?

صح

Correct.

فوالعاني والعاني

"By the swearing of the afflicted and the afflicted."

انا بدأت اتشكرك

I started to thank you.

ولا يعني سبايا شو بدأت لكون اليوم

The captives do not mean to begin today.

مش هنلاحق نعمل يمكن فكرة تالتة وراوعة

We won't have time to come up with a potentially great third idea.

ما بعرف قد اقلنا عم نحكي

I don’t know how much we’ve talked about it.

بس قلت انا يلا هيك هيك اجانا داف

I just said, well, this is how we got Dafa.

وليك الحلقتين ما كان معنا داف

And for the two rings, we didn't have "Daf".

خلات شوية الحديث يروح

Just let the conversation flow a bit.

ما بعرف شو هيكون الشباب شو هيكون رأيهم

I don't know what the young people will think or what their opinion will be.

اللي انت حدسته اليوم

What you discussed today.

وصلت لهم صوتهم

I received their voice.

وصلت لهم صوتهم اه

I reached them their voice, ah.

سبايا كمان ما بعرف

I don't know about the captives either.

مثل كل اسبوع انا

Like every week, I am.

بدي بس اقولكن انو

I just want to tell you that

انشالله كل اللحظات الجاي

God willing, all the upcoming moments.

بتكون

You will be.

احلى من اللحظات

Sweeter than the moments.

اللي مرقت بتكونوا

Those who passed will be.

كل واحد فيكون اقوى من

Everyone can be stronger than.

اللحظات اللي مرقت

The moments that have passed.

بتمنى انو كل انسان فيكون يكون

I hope that everyone can be.

كل لحظة بلحظة عم يعرف

Every moment by the moment he knows.

يشتغل على حاله صح

He is working on himself properly.

اسبوع الجاي انشالله بحلقتنا

Next week, God willing, in our episode.

حكون ناطرة منكن تبعطولي اسئلة

"I will be waiting for you to send me questions."

حنزلكم ستوري كرمل هيدا الموضوع

We'll share a story for this topic.

وكل اللي بدألكم

"And everything that started for you."

ينتبهوا على حالكن

Take care of yourselves.

وانشالله لقاءنا

God willing, our meeting.

اسبوع الجاي

Next week.

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