This is the 96th most frequent Afrikaans word.
my
"My" in Afrikaans means "my" or "mine" in English.
Here, 'my' is a possessive pronoun referring to something that belongs to the speaker, i.e., the house.
Ek hou van my huis.
I love my house.
In this context, 'my' is the object pronoun 'me', referring to the speaker as the person needing help.
Kan jy my asseblief help?
Can you please help me?
Here, 'my' is again a possessive pronoun, but now used in a different context, referring to ownership or close relation to 'vriendin', meaning 'friend'.